A 12-Week Training for Men Ready to Reclaim Their Power and Start Leading Themselves.
For men who are done overthinking, avoiding, and numbing out. It’s time to build resilience, strengthen your backbone, and open your heart.
September 28th - December 14th, 2025
Can you relate to this? Do you…
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Struggle to express what you really need—without guilt, second-guessing, or fearing how others will react?
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Feel like you have to earn love and respect—constantly proving yourself, yet never quite feeling enough?
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Catch yourself molding to others’ expectations, losing touch with your own truth, purpose, and power?
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Cycle between overworking and self-medicating—distracting yourself instead of facing what’s underneath?
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Long for deeper intimacy—but feel unsure how to open without losing attraction?
The 5 Elements of Embodied Leadership
This program is built on five natural forces that you will learn to tap into. These aren’t just symbols—they’re tools for reclaiming your power in the real world.
Each element trains a vital part of your nature:
🜂 Fire — Discipline, direction, and decisive action
🜄 Water — Emotional integrity, relational skill, and sexual energy
🜁 Air — Clarity, consciousness, and vision
🜃 Earth — Structure, boundaries and embodiment
⏣ Space — Containment, devotion, and a relationship to the animating forces of life.
This is about training your capacity to respond and adapt with intention to what would best serve the moment and your relationships. Knowing when to lead with the fierceness of fire… and when to let your heart soften with water. When to structure and stabilize. When to surrender and release. When to take action and lead. When to be still and listen.
Modern life conditions men to get stuck in performance mode. This system guides you to live from the core intelligence of your body.
This is not a concept. It's a direct felt experience—in your nervous system, in your relationships, and the impact of your presence on the outer world.
Is This Training For You?
This isn’t self-help or therapy. It’s a rite of passage into mature masculinity.
✅ This IS for you if…
✔ You feel like you’re drifting—or cracking—and you know something real needs to shift.
✔ You’re hungry for structure, mentorship, and tools—that actually make a difference.
✔ You want to feel solid in your leadership—in love, work, and how you walk through the world.
✔ You’re ready to face hard truths with support, not shame.
✔ You’re craving real brotherhood—where you don’t have to perform, compete, or fix.
🚫 This is NOT for you if…
❌ You want quick fixes or spiritual bypasses.
❌ You’re unwilling to confront your own patterns with honesty.
❌ You need someone to save you or spoon-feed answers.
❌ You’re looking for a blueprint or formula—not inner leadership.
❌ You believe change should feel comfortable—and that you can swipe, download, or consume your way into transformation.
Here's What's Included:
A 3-Day Intensive Retreat
We will gather in community in the beautiful Pacific Northwest forests of Oregon, Oct. 24th - 27th, for a nature-based immersion in deep masculine practice and ceremonial work with entheogens. You will walk away charged up, refreshed and inspired.
A Daily Practice Routine
Learn effective science backed somatic tools to calm your mind, get grounded and build resilience. You will learn how to self regulate and consciously shift your state, so you can show up fully every day present and purposeful.
(11) Live Virtual Workshops
These deep-dive experiential workshops will cover; defining your core values, emotional integrity, shadow integration process, relationship skills, honest partnered feedback, cultivating positive self-talk, group coaching and much more...
An Online Community Forum
This is the virtual location that hosts the program. Built like a social network; here you'll find practice videos, accountability tracking, your weekly missions, group dialogue and support, all in an easy to use interface.
An Integration Workbook
A step-by-step guidebook of daily journaling prompts to highlight your blindspots, track your progression, clear your thoughts, harvest your breakthroughs, gather valuable insights and anchor them into lasting change.
Plus These Bonuses:
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The Masculine Reset Protocol ™
This is the foundation of the program—a full-spectrum mind-body reboot designed to strip away what’s dulling your edge. You’ll undergo a digital dopamine detox, recalibrate your relationship to external female validation, harness your sexual energy with intention, reset your sleep through circadian rhythm alignment, fuel your body with anti-inflammatory nutrition, and supplement with a tested stack of hormone-supportive herbs and glandular extracts to optimize testosterone and vitality. -
Optional Microdosing Formula
A nervous system-supported combination of lion’s mane, psilocybin (optional), and nootropic herbs to enhance clarity, reduce reactivity, and deepen integration. Available to purchase at a program discount from a private supplier. -
3 Private Laser Coaching Sessions
* Limited to the first 12 men to enroll receive 3x 45-minute private calls with Soma to target your unique blocks, patterns, and edges.
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What Men Are Saying:
The insight and clarity of the sessions cut straight to the point… Soma has a gift of seeing through the clutter… He challenges you in a way that brings out the best of oneself.
Brandon; Sales
I didn’t just gain confidence—I gained a floor beneath me. Through honest feedback, embodiment, and practical tools, I now have a baseline of self that doesn’t crack under pressure—even in fear or overwhelm.
Joseph Andersen; Sales Rep
This work helped me uncover emotional blocks I didn’t even know I was holding. I came in thinking I was doing everything right—but still felt stuck. Through this process, I gained more confidence speaking hard truths, deeper trust in other men, and the tools to access emotions I had buried for years.
Jason S; Private Investigator
The tools helped me slow down, regulate my nervous system, and take ownership of how I was showing up. Through this work, I stopped outsourcing my emotional needs and had one of the most honest, loving conversations with my partner I've ever had. It shifted everything.
Ryan C; Actor
This program allowed me to go deep into thoughts and feelings that I had pushed away … healing of old wounds … reconnection to my father as a real, flawed human... I felt safe and held throughout.
James Valnar; Tech
The program was an amazing experience to go through. It broadened my horizon of what I'm capable of. Moreover however, it reminded me that I am not alone in my struggles.
Anonymous
I expected coaching. What I got was transformation. I started feeling my body again. Listening to my heart. These were entirely new skills. I’m more grounded, emotionally aware, and aligned with my values than ever before.
Jonah E. ; Doctor
It helped me build stronger and more conscious male friendships. I recommend this work for any man wanting to be part of a mature masculine community.
Anonymous
The program met and exceeded all expectations. I wanted to heal from the loss of a relationship & the emotional fallout that came from it. I now approach my relationships with a new sense of integrity & don’t compromise my needs.
Tyler Bye; Tech Entrepreneur
When you work with Soma, you join a container of support that can elevate everything you do to the next level. Soma leads by example and lives the work. He is dedicated and committed to supporting men to step forward into their embodied, empowered, highest selves.
Noah Hammond Tyrrell; Coach and Entrepreneur
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As a regular practitioner, this was one of the most powerful exchanges I’ve experienced in embodiment work… this experience healed much of residual energetic pain… in the way of my relationship with my father.
Amir Kalighi; Founder The Embodied Masculine
The optimism and hope that I feel in my bones, has me wake up early, jumping out of bed and ready to tackle whatever the day will throw my way. I think about where I was a year ago – no traction whatsoever on the life that I wanted to live. Depressed, isolated, confused, frustrated. I'm a new man.
BRYAN PISTOLE; Business Banking
