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The Wound Is the Gift: How Your Deepest Pain Reveals Your Greatest Purpose chiron francis weller hero's journey heros journey intiation joseph campbell jung kintuskiri men's healing journey michaelmeade mythopoetic purpose purpose through pain ritesofpassage robert bly shadow work wound and gift wounded healer Apr 25, 2025

The idea that our deepest emotional wounds are directly linked to our greatest gifts is as old as humanity itself. We see it in myth, in art, in psychology, and in the lived experience of men througho...

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Soma Miller

Soma Miller is a highly respected coach and mentor, specializing in guiding men through personal growth and navigating the complexities of modern-day masculinity. With over two decades of training in transformational men's work and the human potential movement, he offers valuable insights and effective strategies to support men through their unique journeys of self-discovery and development. Drawing from science-based biohacking tools, eastern spiritual traditions, nature-based practices, and psychology, Soma takes a holistic approach to coaching. This integrative methodology allows him to address deep-rooted patterns and societal pressures that impact men's lives, empowering them to overcome obstacles and live with purpose and fulfillment.

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