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5 Lessons from a Recovering Nice Guy: How to Stop Sacrificing Yourself and Start Living Authentically #betamale #datingadvice #healthymasculinity #incel #masculine #masculinityisnottoxic #niceguy #nofap #nomoremrniceguy codependency how to stop being a nice guy niceguysyndrome people-pleasing men recovering nice guy Apr 29, 2025

Are You a “Nice Guy” Who Always Finishes Last?

You’re not alone.

There’s a quiet epidemic among modern men—one that leads to emotional suppression, passive resentment, and fractured relationships. I...

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Soma Miller

Soma Miller is a highly respected coach and mentor, specializing in guiding men through personal growth and navigating the complexities of modern-day masculinity. With over two decades of training in transformational men's work and the human potential movement, he offers valuable insights and effective strategies to support men through their unique journeys of self-discovery and development. Drawing from science-based biohacking tools, eastern spiritual traditions, nature-based practices, and psychology, Soma takes a holistic approach to coaching. This integrative methodology allows him to address deep-rooted patterns and societal pressures that impact men's lives, empowering them to overcome obstacles and live with purpose and fulfillment.

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