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Why Men Need Lean Into Their Edge #healthymasculinity growthedge menswork sacredmasculine Aug 17, 2023

I want to share a potent perspective on personal growth with you, centered around the concept of embracing your edge to stay sharp, much like a blade. Life's journey is an intricate dance...

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5 Lessons from a Recovering 'Nice Guy': How to Stop Sacrificing Yourself and Start Living Authentically #betamale #datingadvice #healthymasculinity #incel #masculine #masculinityisnottoxic #niceguy #nofap #nomoremrniceguy codependency Jan 16, 2023

 Are you a "nice guy" who always finishes last? You're not alone.

Have you ever found yourself bending over backward to please others, only to feel overlooked or taken for granted? This...

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The #1 Relationship Hack To Deep Intimacy #creatingyoursoulmate #embodiment #relationshipcoachformen #relationshipcoaching #relationshipskills #sacredintimacy sexualpolarity Jan 05, 2023

Here's my #1 relationship hack to move through conflict into deeper intimacy.

Stop talking so much!

Our words and explanations often stand in the way of what is authentically true. Deeper truths...

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The Gift Of The Patriarch fathers masculineenergy patriarchy toxicmasculinity Jan 04, 2023

Fathers play a crucial role in childhood development. However, in much of post-modern culture, this role is frequently undermined by certain family dynamics and institutional biases in the judicial...

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Can a man be vulnerable and be attractive to women?  Sep 14, 2022

 

Vulnerability has become a buzzword in the last few years. With women generally being on the forefront of diving into therapeutic healing modalities, exploring the inner workings of their...

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A Man Can't Lead Well If He Can't Follow Nov 10, 2021
A man can’t lead well if he can’t follow.
 
I learned this the hard way after being immersed for several years in the illustrious world of sexual polarity as taught by some of...
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The Conscious Man And The Wounded Boy Aug 26, 2020

A man’s maturity is both earned and learned. 

Lived experience is life’s greatest teacher. It’s when a man leans into the dynamic experiences of life, including the pain and...

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5 Powerful Ways To Shift From Conflict With Your Woman Into Deeper Connection Aug 01, 2020

If you're the kind of man that loves and appreciates women for their beauty, allure and radiance, there are some things you need to understand.

Most modern women carry a significant amount of...

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5 Unusual Ways To Discover Your Purpose Jul 15, 2020

Lack of purpose and direction in a man's life can be a subtly painful experience. It often occurs as a dull ache in the early stages of adulthood transforming into a deeper anguish in later years....

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The Courage To Look Within Jul 13, 2020

You don’t know me. But maybe you think you do. You don’t know what I have been through. My past. My history. All that I carry in this lifetime.

You don’t know the pain or trauma I...

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Finding Purpose In Our Pain archetypalpsychology intiation jung kintuskiri michaelmeade purpose ritesofpassage Jul 13, 2020

The notion that there is a relationship between the emotional and psychological wounds that we bear and the inherent gifts that we are to bring forth into the world, is instilled in art and myth,...

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Why Every Man Needs Time Alone alone time mancave masculinity solitude Jul 09, 2020

How to pimp out a man cave and “men going their own way’ are trending in the google search engines. This need to escape the burdens of life is not necessarily a new concept to the male...

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