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5 Common Pitfalls That Lead to a Sexless Marriage (And How to Overcome Them) emotional safety in relationships esther perel relationship advice male and female libido differences performance anxiety in men porn addiction and intimacy reclaiming masculinity reclaiming sexual power restoring sexual energy sexless marriage sexual love languages sexual polarity Aug 04, 2025

A sexless marriage isn’t just frustrating—it’s painful. As men, we tend to assume that if we’re experiencing sexual rejection from our wives, it stems from a lack of attraction, or a failure in perfor...

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How to Hold Space for a Woman's Emotions Without Losing Yourself: A Conscious Man’s Guide to Emotional Leadership in Relationships attunement conscious love embodied masculinity embodiment emotional leadership holding space masculine leadership mens work nervous system strength secure attachment sexual polarity somatics the body keeps the score trauma informed Apr 24, 2025

If you're a man who deeply appreciates the beauty, radiance, and emotional depth of women, there's something crucial you need to understand:

Modern women often carry unresolved trauma.
This can stem ...

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Soma Miller

Soma Miller is a highly respected coach and mentor, specializing in guiding men through personal growth and navigating the complexities of modern-day masculinity. With over two decades of training in transformational men's work and the human potential movement, he offers valuable insights and effective strategies to support men through their unique journeys of self-discovery and development. Drawing from science-based biohacking tools, eastern spiritual traditions, nature-based practices, and psychology, Soma takes a holistic approach to coaching. This integrative methodology allows him to address deep-rooted patterns and societal pressures that impact men's lives, empowering them to overcome obstacles and live with purpose and fulfillment.

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